"My Papa's Waltz" by Theodore Roethke tells a story of a dad who has drank to much whisky and is dancing clumsy around the kitchen with his son. As the dance abrasively around the kitchen items fall of shelves, and mom is not happy. Dad breath smells of whiskey, and his rough knuckles held the boys wrist. The son does not enjoy the dance, but "hung on like death." The boys ear is scraped by the dads belt buckle and the dad keeps time by hitting the boy on the head. At the end the dad dances the boy off the bed.
This poem had a rough, negative attitude towards the dad, but yet I thought the author was trying the be somewhat joyful with the rhythms like knuckle and buckle. I concentrated more on the drunken roughness of the father and how many children today are living the same circumstances.
Jaci, I am with you...I have always struggled with reading poetry. I feel I am a bit better now, probably because I am more motivated to be better. I couldn't help but feel that the boy, as you also picked up on, was not happy with his overall life with his father, but still loved him nonetheless, afterall, his dad is HIS dad. I agree, too, Jaci with your observation with how this still relates in today's society. Of course, we hear about it on TV, read about in newspapers, and (hopefully not) may even know of a situation just as this. I wish we as a society would better learn from historical life experiences as this one better than we have. I just have to be grateful I am not this way with my children...although, not sure our relationship overall is any better due to them being teenagers right now! :)
ReplyDeleteI really liked your observations, Jaci!
HaHa...well the good news is the teenage years pass, the bad news you will come out with a head full of grey at the end! :) GOOD LUCK!
ReplyDeleteI can also struggle with thing sand what they mean especially when I'm not completely in favor of a topic when it comes to poetry. I do think that at times keeping an open mind is important. Being able to read what is written and thinking through all the possibilities can also be quite enjoyable.
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